Wax Play
What is wax play?
Wax play is the process of dripping, pouring or brushing hot wax onto skin. Often, but not always associated with BDSM play, using lower melting point candles is more sensual in nature. It is low cost and can be very intense. The wax itself can create beautiful aesthetically pleasing patterns. Wax play candles melt at a lower temperature than simple table candles, which also cool down slower, causing burns.
The further away the candle is held form the skin, the cooler the wax will feel on contact. 18 inches may be a good place to start, but please remember that tolerances vary from person to person. The person doing the act (probably the dominant) should always test on their own skin first, possible on the wrist or forearm, to understand what their partner will feel.
Stay Safe
You are playing with fire, literally. Always make sure you have the ability to put out a fire in the case of an accident. Avoid highly flammable sheets, such as polyester and wash off any products that contain flammable ingredients, such as hairspray, and perfume. Always have a safe word. It is absolutely crucial to keep hot wax away from eyes and face, as well as open wounds or opening of genitals, the anus, urethra, and vagina. Another thing to keep in mind is that some areas, such as around the genitals, behind the knees, armpits etc are generally highly sensitive.
Playing
Dripping wax directly onto the body can feel very different than allowing it roll down the skin. You could try layering the wax spots, rubbing the wax in, or even blindfolding your partner so they have to anticipate when the next drop will fall. If you’re exploring is part of a bigger BDSM scene, try mixing it up a bit with some spanking, or paddles etc. be careful about the hot wax running down your partner’s body and pooling in crevices. The person receiving the wax will feel an initial burst of pain, and then relief as the wax cools down on the skin. If the pain lingers more than a few moments, the candle may be too close to the skin or the area is too sensitive. If this is the case, increase the distance of the candle from the skin.
After care
This can be introduced as further sensual play. The process of removing the wax from your partner’s skin can feel soothing. Try using an ice cube to harden the wax, this helps removal and can offer some relief to sensitive skin. The skin can also be massaged with a suitable oil or balm.
Things to try
Use a skin lotion or oil to prepare the skin. This will vary the sensation but make sure, especially if using oil, that it is fully absorbed.
Avoid using the wax in a carpeted area. Wax can be very difficult to remove from carpets.
The wax may be gently melted in a saucepan and then brushed onto the skin with a paint brush. This is especially great if you enjoy making aesthetically pleasing designs.
Please note
The candles we supply have a melting point of around 50 c. They are designed for sensual play. The guides above are intended to help but are not comprehensive safety instructions. Common sense should play a major role. We do not accept any liability for the use of these items. We are happy to refund the purchase price in full if they are returned to us unopened.
