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Wand Vibrators / The Doxy
« Last post by Jackie on December 06, 2025, 01:55:29 pm »
British made and the international standard in wired Wand vibrators.
Where it began.
The shapely Doxy Original body is designed to fit comfortably into your hands and is made from seriously tough stuff. This clever polymer is known for its impact resistance and won’t be affected by natural or man-made oils. The carefully cast 6cm metal head is enveloped in smooth medical quality silicone for the perfect finishing touch.
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Rabbit Vibrators / Original Jessica Rabbit
« Last post by Jackie on December 06, 2025, 01:52:39 pm »
The first rabbit vibrator appeared on the market in 1984 and, along with the magic wand vibrator, is considered by Cosmopolitan magazine to be one of the classic sex toys. These vibrators were imported from Japan and designed in bright, playful colors, shaped like beavers, kangaroos, and turtles to comply with the country’s obscenity laws—unlike earlier imports from China that mimicked a realistic phallus. Their cute, colorful designs adds to their stronger appeal among women, which ultimately contributed to the Rabbit’s commercial success.
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Things you need to know / How to measure chastity for a chastity cage
« Last post by Jackie on December 06, 2025, 01:49:38 pm »
How to measure yourself for a chastity cage
One of the most important steps as you start your journey into chastity play is learning how to choose a correctly sized cage. The perfect cage will have a tight fit that prevents erections without cutting off blood flow to the penis, allowing the user to enjoy chastity. There should never be pain, discomfort or injury.
Here are some tips for choosing a correctly sized cage.
Understanding Chastity Cages
The chastity cage is comprised of two components:
• A ring that goes around the penis and testicles
• A cage that is worn over the penis and attached to the ring
Though this may appear minor, it provides essential context for what comes next.
Taking Measurements
You’ll need two different measurements to be able to pick out a cage that fits you properly.
Step 1 - Preparation
Before taking your measurements, make sure you have the right tools on hand. You can use a piece of string or fabric together with a ruler to measure yourself. If you find it difficult to get a tape measure to lie smoothly against your body, it may not be the most convenient option. Choose whatever method feels easiest and helps you get accurate results.
Step 2 - Getting Comfortable
The next step is to ensure you’re in a relaxed, natural state before measuring. Heat—such as from a warm shower or bath—can increase blood flow and lead to an inaccurate reading, while measuring in a cold environment can make the measurement smaller than normal. Either extreme can result in choosing a cage that’s too loose, too tight, or even unsafe. The best time to measure is when you’re fully flaccid, comfortable, and in a space that isn’t too warm or too cold.
Step 3 - Measure Yourself
The third and final step is taking the measurements. The first measurement will be for the base ring. Measure around the base of your penis and behind the testicles, where the ring would be fitted if you were to wear it. This will provide you with the circumference, which then needs to be divided by pi (approximately 3.14) to give you the diameter.
The second measurement you’ll need is the length of the cage. Measure from the base of your penis to the tip of the head. If you carry extra stomach fat, press the ruler gently against your pubic bone to ensure an accurate reading.
Next, you can take a measurement for the cage’s diameter, similar to how you measured for the base ring. Wrap the measuring tape around the base of your penis, then divide that number by π to determine the diameter. This helps if you want a precise fit for the cage.
With the math and measurements done, you’re ready to choose the sizes that will best suit your package.
Choosing Your Size
Selecting the right ring and cage size is fairly simple, though there are a few key differences between them:
• Choose a ring size that matches your measurement as closely as possible.
• Select a cage length that is slightly shorter than your measured length—about ¼ inch to ½ inch shorter—to ensure a secure fit.
• Pick a cage diameter that matches your diameter measurement or is just a bit smaller.
How Tight Should a Chastity Cage Be?
Your cage should have a comfortable, secure fit—not overly tight. A cage that’s too tight can cause discomfort and may even lead to injury. Aim for a fit that feels snug without creating pain or pressure.
Is My Chastity Cage Too Big?
If the cage is too large, it will feel loose or may not stay in place properly. Using the measurements you gathered will help ensure the base ring fits correctly. If the cage portion is oversized, you may experience more movement or unwanted room for erections. Additionally, if the cage has an opening for urination, an improper fit can cause misalignment and lead to messes.

A wide range of chastity cages can be found on the her4her website HERE
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Things you need to know / Stay safe with candles
« Last post by Jackie on December 06, 2025, 01:48:35 pm »
Wax Play
What is wax play?
Wax play is the process of dripping, pouring or brushing hot wax onto skin. Often, but not always associated with BDSM play, using lower melting point candles is more sensual in nature. It is low cost and can be very intense. The wax itself can create beautiful aesthetically pleasing patterns. Wax play candles melt at a lower temperature than simple table candles, which also cool down slower, causing burns.
The further away the candle is held form the skin, the cooler the wax will feel on contact. 18 inches may be a good place to start, but please remember that tolerances vary from person to person.  The person doing the act (probably the dominant) should always test on their own skin first, possible on the wrist or forearm, to understand what their partner will feel.
Stay Safe
You are playing with fire, literally. Always make sure you have the ability to put out a fire in the case of an accident. Avoid highly flammable sheets, such as polyester and wash off any products that contain flammable ingredients, such as hairspray, and perfume. Always have a safe word. It is absolutely crucial to keep hot wax away from eyes and face, as well as open wounds or opening of genitals, the anus, urethra, and vagina. Another thing to keep in mind is that some areas, such as around the genitals, behind the knees, armpits etc are generally highly sensitive.
Playing
Dripping wax directly onto the body can feel very different than allowing it roll down the skin. You could try layering the wax spots, rubbing the wax in, or even blindfolding your partner so they have to anticipate when the next drop will fall. If you’re exploring is part of a bigger BDSM scene, try mixing it up a bit with some spanking, or paddles etc. be careful about the hot wax running down your partner’s body and pooling in crevices. The person receiving the wax will feel an initial burst of pain, and then relief as the wax cools down on the skin. If the pain lingers more than a few moments, the candle may be too close to the skin or the area is too sensitive. If this is the case, increase the distance of the candle from the skin.
After care
This can be introduced as further sensual play. The process of removing the wax from your partner’s skin can feel soothing. Try using an ice cube to harden the wax, this helps removal and can offer some relief to sensitive skin. The skin can also be massaged with a suitable oil or balm.
Things to try
Use a skin lotion or oil to prepare the skin. This will vary the sensation but make sure, especially if using oil, that it is fully absorbed.
Avoid using the wax in a carpeted area. Wax can be very difficult to remove from carpets.
The wax may be gently melted in a saucepan and then brushed onto the skin with a paint brush. This is especially great if you enjoy making aesthetically pleasing designs.
Please note
The candles we supply have a melting point of around 50 c. They are designed for sensual play. The guides above are intended to help but are not comprehensive safety instructions. Common sense should play a major role. We do not accept any liability for the use of these items. We are happy to refund the purchase price in full if they are returned to us unopened.
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Members Lounge / Welcome to Lovers World
« Last post by Jackie on December 06, 2025, 12:03:56 pm »
Welcome to Lovers World

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Thanks!
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